The boomers in firms understand how to write a
thank you note, but the other generations working with you might not. Therefore, I will spend some time
illustrating how to write one.
First, we must consider consistency and making
this tool part of the corporate culture. A few years ago, I consulted with an
engineering firm that used this tool for the one large trade show they attended
each year. The president required all staff
attending to write thank you notes to everyone they had contact with during the
show. He even asked for copies of all
notes that had been written. However,
this was the only time of the year that staff was compelled to write thank you
letters. Obviously, there are other times when thank you notes are in order.
Consistency is the key to making this part of the corporate culture.
Like any good thing, overuse can wear out its
usefulness. Therefore, be consistent but
not overbearing or your notes will not have the intended impact.
"Overcoming Communication Barriers to Improve Service" is a training program I developed for professionals in the parking industry a few years ago. Since then, several other firms have asked me to present it to their firms as well. One area of relevance for this message is the topic of "Noise."
How many tweets, emails, advertising messages, phone calls and other communications do your clients receive each day. How does your marketing message filter through the noise? When you are consistent with all of your messaging, you stay on top of the client's mind. When you take the time to prepare handwritten notes, you evaporate the noise.
The first rule in writing a handwritten thank
you note is correct spelling. Remember,
this is not Twitter or a text. Don’t abbreviate words or leave out punctuation
marks. Take your time. Write the message
on a blank piece of paper first. This
way you are sure the words make sense and you won’t be thinking about the next
sentence while you misspell a word in the first sentence. Grammatical mistakes and misspelled words
will not build confidence but instead cause clients to have negative feelings. Please don’t use that as an excuse not to write.
The second rule is to print professional
correspondence cards with your firm name and logo. A large “Thank You” or
“Thinking of You” can be printed on the cover.
Why is a “thank you” even necessary? In our busy
culture, the thank you seems to have garnered second class status. Managers often forget to thank staff for the
work they do. Many firms host holiday events to thank clients for retaining
them in the prior year but have no plan for thanking them during the rest of
the year. The holiday event becomes an expected tradition. Perhaps some firms
believe the good work they do is the only "thank you" a client is looking
for. That might be a good line in a
staff pep talk, but it doesn’t go to the heart of client retention. Every firm is looking for lifetime
clients. Your good work might be a thank
you for receiving the current project but it doesn’t guarantee your firm the
next project. The bottom line: our clients are people who like to be
recognized.
You might have a relative like my
grandmother. On birthdays, she would
always tell everyone she didn’t want a party and gifts were not necessary. Yet, when the party happened and gifts were
given, her eyes lit up and a few tears could be seen trickling down her cheeks.
That is the biggest bonus of a handwritten
thank you note. Clients don’t expect
it. Clients would never ask for it. Yet, when they receive one, they hold the
sender in awe because they have done something few others do.
Although I have concentrated on the “Thank You”
note, personal notes can be written for a variety of reasons. Here are a few examples:
- Congratulations
over a promotion, company milestone, anniversary, birthday, marriage, or
other important event.
- Notice
of the person being mentioned in the newspaper or trade magazine.
- A
stated desire to stay in touch after meeting someone at a networking
event.
- A
brief reminder of your tremendous experience working with him.
- Appreciation
for the introduction he/she made for you
- A compliment about a child (sports, graduation, national honor society, etc.)
- A bereavement note to a client who lost a loved one.
Want to really differentiate yourself from the competition
today? Write a meaningful, handwritten thank you note. It is easy to
begin. Push your keyboard away, turn off the tablet and IPhone, and write one or two sentences—by hand. The reaction of your client will be
priceless.